when you asked me to be your girlfriend did you ask theo and august first to make sure they were okay with it? is that like... a rule? or is that weird?
oh! yeah, that's totally understandable this probably feels like a cliché at this point but communication's super important
[ says the girl who didn't ask her boyfriends directly, oops ]
better to make things clear and especially to set boundaries if something makes you uncomfortable you wanna let them know sooner rather than later even if it's just to figure how to make things work
she seemed sad the first time shaken by everything that happened, i guess i think we all were but we had a nice conversation she's really sweet i'd like to help her if i can
yeah, she was she feels unworthy of being here, i think. sometimes. or a lot of the time
[ well, after just being all sweet and sincere about jackie she hates to gossip about her, but she needs to tell SOMEbody this, jeez ]
i found out that shauna and jackie are BOTH fucking saber or have fucked saber i mean, i think shauna does it regularly. i don't know if jackie only did it the one time or not because i didn't ask. but like, ewww
[ She's not sure how she'd feel if any of her partners slept with him, let alone regularly. At least he's stopped being raging jealous of anyone she's with.
Anyway. ]
he should be smarter than that but yeah i wouldn't put it past him to break some hearts
i guess but there's the whole thing about boundaries they're in a relationship with you, not with him i don't want to tell you how to navigate this though it's just something to think about?
hey i'd be here for you even if i wasn't your girlfriend, first of all but since i am that gives me extra being here for you rights, or something okay? don't feel like you're ever a burden or anything
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but i mean, theo already kinda knew about you? so it's not like it was out of nowhere
like i already knew about harry before
not everyone is like that though! usually it's a good idea to check with each other first
i think we're more the exception than the rule
what's up?
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shauna and jackie and i are like, a thing now? but we were already, unofficially. well. sort of. long story. anyway
i just, like. i've never done this before so i want to make sure i'm doing it right
you know, for everybody
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this probably feels like a cliché at this point but communication's super important
[ says the girl who didn't ask her boyfriends directly, oops ]
better to make things clear and especially to set boundaries
if something makes you uncomfortable you wanna let them know sooner rather than later
even if it's just to figure how to make things work
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and shauna is on this kick of saying we need to be fair and honest with each other lol
[ "lol" because of shauna having the audacity, not because she's wrong ]
they both like you a lot
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i'm glad you guys are together, it's super cute
and i mean she's right! but it's also one of those easier said than done things
i think you can do it, though
you've got a really good heart
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and thanks for that too. it means a lot coming from you
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i met with jackie a couple of times
since we came back
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you did? did she seem okay?
oh, also, do you want to hear something insane?
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shaken by everything that happened, i guess
i think we all were
but we had a nice conversation
she's really sweet
i'd like to help her if i can
what's up?
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she feels unworthy of being here, i think. sometimes. or a lot of the time
[ well, after just being all sweet and sincere about jackie she hates to gossip about her, but she needs to tell SOMEbody this, jeez ]
i found out that shauna and jackie are BOTH fucking saber
or have fucked saber
i mean, i think shauna does it regularly. i don't know if jackie only did it the one time or not because i didn't ask.
but like, ewww
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shauna i knew about but jackie??
like
on purpose??
[ aka was aphro involved
regardless, ]
not saying I'm judging them but
eww
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i knew about shauna already, i think it's weird but whatever
but JACKIE? sweet jackie? he could destroy her
i seriously don't get it
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this is coming from someone who's lived with him for way too long
[ and led him on for fun and ego purposes cough ]
he better not hurt them
I'm serious
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you don't think he would, right?
i know he's
not nice
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yeah you're not the only one
he just
doesn't care about people the way we do
he cares about getting what he wants
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we met officially a couple months ago so i got some firsthand experience
anyway, i would hope he'd know better than to do anything to either of them
[ not for any moral reason but because it would cause so much drama, at the very least? ]
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he should be smarter than that
but yeah i wouldn't put it past him to break some hearts
how are you feeling about it?
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i don't like him
but it's not up to me. i can't control who they're with
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i guess
but there's the whole thing about boundaries
they're in a relationship with you, not with him
i don't want to tell you how to navigate this though
it's just something to think about?
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[ her saying that definitely isn't going to be weird in a couple weeks or anything ]
you're right
we did kinda lay down some ground rules but like, if it gets weird with him maybe i'll say something
anyway, sorry, this isn't like... your problem at all. but thanks for listening :)
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hey
i'd be here for you even if i wasn't your girlfriend, first of all
but since i am that gives me extra being here for you rights, or something
okay?
don't feel like you're ever a burden or anything
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and the same goes for you, okay?
if you ever need to talk about something i'll be here
🎀 soon?
hey
wanna show me your skate park?
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but you're gonna have to skate. sorry, i don't make the rules
[ she literally does ]